The Work
The work you see here rarely begins as a finished idea. Most of it begins as a public conversation. Sometimes those conversations become essays in Yoked. Sometimes they grow into Listening Reports, TED talks, books, films, or entirely new questions worth pursuing. However it takes shape, the goal is always the same: helping people better understand modern Christian singleness through research, storytelling, and public conversation.
One conversation. Told through different kinds of work.
Yoked
Yoked is the home for my ongoing work exploring modern Christian singleness — long-form essays, Field Notes, and reader-supported writing on the cultural patterns, institutional questions, and lived experiences shaping Christian singleness today. It's also where many of the ideas behind my talks, Listening Reports, and books are first developed.
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State of Christian Singleness
Built from years of listening to Christian singles, this report identifies the patterns — in faith, dating, and expectation — that rarely get named directly. It doesn't begin with conclusions. It begins with listening.
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The World Christian Singles Inherited
Church culture. Demographic change. Modern dating. Inherited expectations. This series examines the cultural patterns, institutional assumptions, and changing realities shaping modern Christian singleness. Because before we can understand people's experiences, we have to understand the world they're experiencing them in.
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Your Pastor Can't Find You a Husband
TEDx Talk
What happens when faithful people are given guidance that no longer matches the world they're living in? Drawing on demographic shifts, church culture, and years of conversation with Christian singles, this talk asks not "what's wrong with me," but "what am I operating inside of."
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Continue Exploring
Read the essays behind the questions I'm still exploring.
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