The Essays

Most of my work begins here. Usually with a question I can't quite let go of.

Most of my work
begins here. Usually
with a question I can't
quite let go of.

I write to better understand the world Christian singles are navigating. Some of those essays remain essays. Others eventually become TED talks, Listening Reports, books, or entirely new conversations. This is where most of them begin.

Essay collections

Reflective essays on the inherited assumptions shaping modern Christian dating and singleness.

Short, recurring observations from the Listening Report and public conversation.

Browse every published essay, regardless of collection.

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